9:20 am, New Britain, CT: In 48 hours I will be on a plane bound for SF; 48 hours after that I’ll be in Washington DC, and then 48 hours from then, back in New Britain.
While that will be a slight relief in terms of work, it will blow in terms of missing the bulk of the extended family. However, that’s what the weekends are for, I figure. Two sisters and one girlfriend arrive today – and there’s a grandad birthday at the Club – as in country club, not the “What Is Love, Baby Don’t Hurt Me,” kind.
Meaning, 4 kids under 7, 3 dogs, 4 siblings, 4 significant others and one set of grandparents. Or, full chaos.
Ted and the Saucy Empress are already hyper – and Awesome Wife had to teach a Barre class (she’s converted the basement into a studio, with Grandad’s help as well as a little from Ted and me). So we’ve packed the monkeys off with Ga for an hour or so, and I am writing this and prepping for the inevitable Saturday AM conference call.
Recent highlights from the last day or so:
- Saucy Empress learned to ride a bike, finally. She’s been capable of it for at least 18 months, but decided it was more fun to have dad push her while she shouted directions – until 2 days ago. God help any rickshaw drivers she encounters later in life.
- Saucy Empress also just learned what road rash feels like – she got distracted and raspberried her face and shoulder after wiping out. A bummer, but also hugely ironic for me, as a child of the 70’s, because she was wearing basically full body armor – and still came out bloody. I think she looks awesome. She’s not so sure.
- Ted’s gone into full golf mode – it’s the sport of the male Devers – leaving me well behind. Grandad is irritated because his swing has been tainted by the floor hockey he plays in Cali.
- Oonagh the Red Dragon has learned to squeeze herself through gaps in the fence in the large yard. And taunt the other dogs, including the long-suffering, somewhat too-tubby, Kingsley.
- Oonagh also has crapped in nearly every room in the large house.
- I will never get tired of this house as a piece of beautiful early-20th-century construction. 10 bedrooms, 4 bathrooms, multiple living rooms…go Stanley Works. Perfect for large family gatherings, and after two decades of slow but steady repair by the in-laws, it’s now not only functional but comfortable.
Enjoying the calm before the storm.

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